When the pain of remaining the same is greater than the pain of change that is when we change.
Behavior Modification Coaching is ideal for addressing Personal Health, Finances or Career Advancement in your life
Are you ready to make a change? To find out, answer the below questions:
- Are you tired of being frustrated, annoyed or yearning for something more?
- Can you identify two things in your life you wish were different?
- Have you overcome adversity in the past?
- Are you willing to try a complimentary 60 minute Discovery session?
If you answered YES to all four questions then your are ready to step into the Behavior Modification 3 step process to success:
- Education and Planning
- Setting customize goals
- Goal Evaluation and Reevaluation
NEXT STEP – Email me and I will send you a “Discovery” sheet to be filled out and returned before your complimentary session.
As your Behavior Modification Coach we will identify what areas of your life you are loving and what areas you are ready for something different, something more. We will identify what is getting in the way of your goals and ambitions. We will create and implement structures, strategies and accountability to move you closer to what you deserve and fundamentally change your life with support and confidentiality.
Being an unwanted child from inception, bounced around among many caregivers until the age of 7 years old and then winding up in a Chicago orphanage until the age of 13 years old left many emotional scars.
As I got older I realized my many blessings. With the help of many of caring and loving people, I know and some I’ll never know, I’ve been able to identify and heal those scars but those scars have left me with many “shadows”. These “shadows” used to control my behaviors and ultimately the direction of my life. According to Adoption.com the suicide rate of adoptees is four times greater than non-adoptees. By the grace of God I narrowly escaped that fate. My life journey has had numerouse painful and trying challenges not only for me but also those that care and love me. My “shadows” likes to encourage me to run away and be the victim. It is so easy for me to slip into that way of being. As a child I had to exist with survival mentality. As a young adult I was unknowingly attracting survival situations and shaping my life through that lens. Survival does have its benefits as we are wired to survive but that mentality just wasn’t working. for me anymore. I never forget my adoptive mother’s candid and jarring remark to me after I had, again, done something epically stupid. ” Bill, you have a way of getting hip deep in shit and coming out smelling like a rose.” That is when I realized that I was resourceful, smart, focused, driven, and had the courage to change outcomes and myself when I really had to. That is when I realized that I needed to shift from a surviving mentality to thriving mentality. But how? I realized I was the captain of my sailboat but I was never taught how to sail. I wasn’t taught how to pick a destination. I had to learn not only how feel the wind but how to use the wind to my advantage. I always believed I was a victim of the wind. I had to learn and practice how to keep my hands on the rudder, sometimes intentionally forceful and other times gently. I had a lot to learn about attracting the life I wanted to live while living the life I had created. I need to rebuild my “life” boat one piece at a time, one moment at a time and, one day at time. I had to learn how to own and proactively sail my own “life” boat. I was in uncharted waters and I needed help, guidance and support.
Fast forward to the present. I am blessed to be married to an amazing woman who is my friend, my support and mother of my two amazing children. We own a childcare company and I run a health and wellness consulting business with the mission to empower others so they may experience and live a fulfilled life.
My future holds the same life challenges that come with the human condition like ageing, health, financial challenges, loss of loved ones, just to mention a few. My “shadows” of abandonment and self worth will always be with me but now I can recognize them, put them in front of me instead of my “shadows” controlling me from behind and driving my “life” boat. I’ve also embrace the science and process of change. There is a formula to change that will greatly increase your odds of enjoying a productive and fulfilling life that overcomes challenges while bringing rich and rewarding experiences.
I don’t have your life answers but if you have the courage to dig below the surface I guarantee you will find your life changing answers. As your Behavior Modification Coach I will support and inspire you while you work towards identifying your goals, creating effective strategies and support that produces the outcomes you desire and the life experience you deserve if you have the courage to let me onto your “Life” boat.
YES!! I am ready to take the next step! Send me the Discovery form.